Influence is a state of being. When we are living with our influence fully expressed doors open, life becomes easier and we make a difference. We need to develop clear communication skills to express what we need and to make ourselves heard. Power, voice and influence are all directly connected. Power is the ability, strength, and capacity to do something. Influence is the effect of something on a person, thing, or event or the power that somebody has to affect other people’s thinking or actions by means of argument, example, or force of personality. Voice is the necessary vehicle to express what needs to change- be different or developed. When we believe we have the power to create change influence is a direct outcome.
It’s important for us to understand what we value in order to make a decision on where we want to place our attention in the world. Power is the energy behind influence and can be found in four specific realms: the spiritual, the intellectual, the emotional and the physical. Have you ever thought about the source of your power? Have you ever asked yourself where you place the majority of your power and influence?
Women have a great ability to influence the direction in which the world is moving but we must first understand our powerful and unique world view and value the strength and contribution of our voice. Voice is the medium or expression for power and influence. In my work with women, two of the greatest areas I have focused on over the years are clear expression of voice and the right use of will or influence. We need clarity and confidence to express our values through our voice.
· Where in your life do you need to create influence in the New Year?
· What power or skills do you need to develop to do so?
· Is your voice clear and strong enough to support the change you want to make? If not, where do you need to strengthen it?
Enter the new year awake and ready to make change. You have it in you!
Maureen Simon
The Essential Feminine Blog 